News active for Black women on National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day additional FREE tip area on how to acquisition out if your bedmate or admirer is on the down low.
-- As National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day approaches, (February 7) Black women charge to become acquainted of 3 important facts:
- Black Women are the accomplished accident chic for HIV/AIDS.
- Record numbers of Black women are application HIV/AIDS through heterosexual acquaintance – mainly from husbands and boyfriends on the down low.
- Black women accept been apprenticed about how to acquaint if a man is on the down low -- which hampers their adeptness to assure themselves adjoin heterosexually-contracted HIV/AIDS.
Husbands and Boyfriends a Source of Infection
Most Black women are afraid to apprentice that HIV/AIDS has advance far above the boundaries of the gay community. Black women now anniversary for about 70% of all new AIDS cases. And their husbands and boyfriends are the acumen why.
Ruth Houston, a New York-based adultery able and architect of InfidelityAdvice.com says, “Most Black women who are affiliated or in committed relationships accept been lulled into a apocryphal faculty of aegis apropos HIV/AIDS. It has never occurred to them that their bedmate or admirer could be a abeyant antecedent of HIV infection. However, CDC studies appearance that 67% of Black women with HIV apprenticed it, not from biologic use, but from heterosexual sex.”
Spreading HIV/AIDS to Unsuspecting Mates
Many bloom affliction professionals aspect the acceleration in HIV/AIDS a allotment of Black women to Black men on the “down low" – gay or bisexual men who secretly accept sex with added men while advancement relationships with women. Recent CDC studies announce that 90% of HIV absolute bisexual Black men don’t even apperceive that they are infected. These men are aback overextension the virus to the biting women in their lives.
Houston, the columnist of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, says “Most down low brothers are so accomplished at concealing their abstruse lifestyle, that their wives and girlfriends accept no abstraction they’re cheating – abundant beneath – cheating with addition man.”
Lies and Misinformation Abound
“The HIV/AIDS botheration is circuitous by the disability of Black women to accurately appraise whether or not a man is on the down low.” Houston credibility out. “Terry McMillan’s contempo annulment from her bedmate of 6 ½ years who assuredly accepted he was gay, shows how calmly even savvy, adroit Black women can be bamboozled by a man on the down low.”
Houston observes, “Many women accept been afield led to accept they can acquaint a ‘down low brother’ by apparent actualization – the way he walks, talks, dresses, or acts. The result? Many innocent Black men accept been falsely accused. Women accept aswell been told that there are NO admonition signs. Because of all these lies and apocryphal information, Black women aren’t absolutely abiding how to acquaint if a man is on the down low.”
Signs of Same Sex Infidelity
Houston, who has spent 11 years belief and documenting signs of adultery says, “The down low is basically addition anatomy of adultery – aforementioned sex infidelity. Which agency that a lot of of the aforementioned signs of adultery apply.” The signs are covered in detail in Houston’s book, Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, which lists about every accepted assurance of infidelity, including the attenuate signs women usually overlook. (Lifestyle Publications, $29.95) http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com
“Part of the problem,” explains Houston, “is that a lot of women aren’t even acquainted that their accomplice is cheating. Even if they suspect, it never occurs to them that the ‘Other Woman’ could in actuality be addition man. In accession to the accepted signs of adultery (many of which are attenuate and calmly overlooked) there are assertive signs which announce that his accomplice is addition man. In adjustment to assure themselves adjoin heterosexually-contracted HIV/AIDS, Black women charge to apperceive what these signs are. Knowing what to attending for is the key.”
Tip Sheet Tells How to Detect the Down Low
Out of affair for the bloom of biting women who accept no abstraction that their men are on the down low, Houston has aggregate a 2-part tip area alleged the Down Low Dozen. Part I of the Down Low Dozen Tip Sheet outlines Houston’s alert 3-step action for award out if a man is on the down low. Part 2 of the Down Low Dozen Tip Sheet gives admonition on how to accost him about his down low status, what to do, and area to get help. The Down Low Dozen Tip Sheet is FREE to any woman who e-mails downlowdozen@gmail.com (DownLowDozen at gmail.com) with “Down Low Dozen” in the accountable line.
Knowledge is Power
Says Houston. “Every Black woman should apperceive how to acquaint if her bedmate or admirer is on the down low. This ability will abate her accident of acceptable adulterated with heterosexually–contracted HIV/AIDS.”
“Every Black woman should apperceive her own and her partner’s HIV cachet – her activity could depend on it. Getting activated is the alone way to apperceive for sure. If your bloom has already been compromised, aboriginal analysis and accurate ecology can advice accumulate the virus from developing into absolute AIDS. “
“In befitting with the affair of National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day --‘get educated, get tested, get advised and get involved,’ -- act on this information. The activity you save may be your own.”
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity able Ruth Houston is the columnist of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, which covers about every accepted assurance of infidelity. Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, Newsday, the New York Post, Cosmopolitan, the Houston Chronicle, MSN Lifestyle, iVillage, AOL BlackVoices, City Life, and abundant others. She has appeared on The Today Show, Good Day New York, 1010WINS, TalkAmerica, Telemundo, The Breakfast Club, BBC, CBC and over 200 TV and radio allocution shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, the Caribbean, South America, Australia and New Zealand.
To account Ruth Houston, or accept her allege to your group, alarm 718 592-6039 or e-mail (InfidelityExpert at gmail.com).
For added information, about Ruth, her book, about adultery or the down low, appointment www.InfidelityAdvice.com.
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