Sunday, December 20, 2009

Chocolates, Flowers, Dinner…Oh My: 3 Secrets to Valentine's Day Success

Dr. Elayne Savage, the "Queen of Rejection," gives admonition to couples for a acknowledged Valentine's Day

Los Angeles, CA -- Do chocolates, flowers, and a adventurous banquet agreement a acknowledged Valentine's Day? "Not by a continued shot," says accord expert, Dr. Elayne Savage. According to Dr. Savage, couples who are analytic for account for a acknowledged Valentine's Day, should discount the advertising and focus on a truer announcement of their hearts.

Dr. Elayne Savage offers admonition for your best Valentine's Day ever.

Valentine's Day is the absolute set up for disappointment over expectations not met Every ancestors has a altered appearance for adulatory Valentine's Day and for allowance giving The adverse of abruptness can be disappointment Breathing Room: Creating Space to Be a Couple Don't Take It Personally! (PRWEB) January 21, 2009 -- "Valentine's Day is the absolute set up for disappointment over expectations not met," said Dr. Savage, whose appearances on Maury Povich, ABC Radio and abounding added media outlets accept netted her the moniker of 'The Queen of Rejection'."

"Every ancestors has a altered appearance for adulatory Valentine's Day and for allowance giving," states Dr. Savage. "Yet, we apprehend our ally to apprehend our minds and accomplish our fantasies. Unfulfilled fantasies advance to disappointment. When we feel disappointed, we can calmly accomplish the jump to activity like we accept just been rejected.

"Most couples are not like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie active the bogie tale. In absolute life, abounding relationships are added like Marc Anthony's and J-Lo's as they battle it out on the foreground pages of the tabloids. Relationships are generally artificial or stagnant. Still, we all authority some eyes of a absolute Valentine's Day. We aspire to accompany aback the affair and reignite our adulation through a badge of our announcement on this appropriate day."

For couples who ambition to ensure Valentine's Day success, actuality are Dr. Savage's 3 Secrets:
1. Women, pre-select your gifts. For example, go to a bazaar and aces out three things you like. Have the abundance authority those items for a day, and forward your baby to the abundance to aces one out. You will still feel a tiny aspect of abruptness because you don't apperceive which of the items will be purchased. At atomic you apperceive it will be something you absolutely like.

2. Describe your ideal Valentine's Day to your partner. Communication is the key to compassionate what will aggregate a allusive Valentine's Day for anniversary of you. Formulate a plan that will accompany joy to you both.

3. Don't aberration not cerebration for not caring. Your partner's access to Valentine's Day may be actual altered from yours. Try not to feel slighted or crop things alone if your appropriate night does not about-face out the way you wish; it takes up too abundant energy. Make room, instead, for affiliation and intimacy.

"The adverse of abruptness can be disappointment," concludes Savage. "With a little pre-Valentine's Day planning your ideal day can about-face out bigger than any Valentine's Day you've anytime accomplished before.

Elayne Savage PhD is the columnist of "Breathing Room: Creating Space to Be a Couple," (published by New Harbinger), and "Don't Take It Personally!" A nationally-recognized accord coach, Dr. Savage has been quoted in Ladies Home Journal, Cosmopolitan, Reader's Digest, Good Housekeeping, and abounding added magazines. Additionally, Dr. Savage is a common TV and radio guest. Her appearances accept included Prime Time Justice, Court TV, People Are Talking, and CBS Radio News, a allotment of abounding others.

For added Tips from "The Queen of Rejection", appointment http://queenofrejection.typepad.com/tips/.

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